Journey Series: Robin
The Femme Oasis: How do you identify yourself (gender and gender performance)?
TFO: What is your current occupation?
R: Entrepreneur/remarketer for Primeritius
TFO: What do you do as a hobby?
R: Writing and cooking.
TFO: What are some organizations you’re involved in?
R: The Milf Association
TFO: What is your dream job?
R: Owning my own entertainment firm and entertainment lawyer.
TFO: What are the three major stressors in your life?
R: Myself is the biggest stressor. I stress over little and big things. My family is another major stressor. I feel like to spend most of my life not trying to be a disappointment or a burden on my family, which is not how you should ever think about yourself you are never a burden to anyone. And lastly again myself, I put myself on a pedestal and if I don’t do everything perfect I get upset but have to think I am only human.
TFO: How do you cope with your stresses (if at all)?
R: Self-mediate. Breathe inside and out. And try to relax by myself.
TFO: Do you have goals you set for your life overall?
R: Yes, I set daily goals monthly goals and yearly goals.
TFO: What is your process in achieving these goals?
R: Right now I am planning everything accordingly to where I am right now in life. I am carefully moving things around in my life so I can get to my goals.
TFO: What is your daily mantra (if you have one)?
R: Talking to myself. I always talk to myself about what I am going to do today and to stay positive.
TFO: Are you happy where you are in life?
R: I am content with my life which took me awhile to become happy with myself. I think sometimes we put a lot of pressure on ourselves about where we want to be. I am happy with myself knowing I am only human and knowing I am still growing. But the person I am right now is happy which makes me happy about my life.
If not, would you say you’re unhappy, or just not completely satisfied because you want better/more? I am not satisfied with everything but I think no one is actually satisfied with everything. We always want more but that’s just human nature.
TFO: Are you on a path you feel is right for you?
R: Yes, everybody has a different journey. My journey will be different than my best friend, my cousin and my coworker. So I feel as if the path that I am on is designed for me to evolve into the woman I am destined for.
TFO: Do you feel confused or pressure to figure out if you are on the right path?
R: I feel we all do but for me yes at times I get frustrated about where I am right now in life. I contradict myself about being happy with my life than going back and forth. I stress myself about what could happen if I would had done this.
TFO: Do you feel you can alleviate these hindrances or do you feel they are bigger than you?
R: Nope, I feel like I can get through them with staying positive about myself and about life and learning more about me.
TFO: What are some pressures of society you wish didn’t exist?
R: Double standards that society gives us to live by. It’s double standards for everything dealing with gender, race/ethnicity, sports, age groups, etc. I feel as if everyone would stay in their lane the world would be a better place. There is no right or wrong way to live by but society give us rules to follow.
TFO: What would be one thing you don’t have but you want at this very moment (it can be tangible or intangible)?
R: 100 Million dollars.
TFO: What do you do for self-care (if anything)?
R: Pampering myself. When you look good you always feel good.
TFO: What is something you do well that you can offer society? I offer young mothers a voice. I always talked a lot and been very personal. I think my talent is talking. Not everyone can speak or can be heard but when I walked into a room and start talking. Everyone will listen to me and talk to me.
R: I offer young mothers a voice. I always talked a lot and been very personal. I think my talent is talking. Not everyone can speak or can be heard but when I walked into a room and start talking. Everyone will listen to me and talk to me.
TFO: Do you have goods or services you want to sell or promote to your fellow femmes and women?
R: I run a website called themilfassociation.com empowering young moms.
TFO: Where can we find you (social media, email, organization etc.)?
R: Facebook: Robin Evette. Twitter: tasteofchampagn. Snapchat: tastemychampagn. Themilfassociation.com